Dear Josh,
All I date is emotionally unavailable women and by the time I find out 2 months have gone by. What do I do?
Adam
Washington DC
Adam,
I had this problem to until I stopped dating and started information gathering. Sounds weird huh? I use to hook up and ask questions later, mistaking sexual attraction for love and companionship. Now when I go on a date I ask questions like, are you looking for a relationship? Do you want to have kids someday? Are you seeing anyone else? It may seem odd, but if you preface it by saying I really want to get to know you, a classy lady who is emotionally available shouldn’t have any problem answering a few simple questions. If she does, it might, just might, be a sign that she is not emotionally available.